school report
Yesterday my daughter bought home her end of year report. It was, as always, a traumatic experience. There is something about being judged and measured that undermines a human being at quite a fundamental level. They have two sets of marks, one a letter grade for 'behavour and attitude in class' and the second a number that is the National Curriculum level in each subject area. Last time her Tutor had gone round the class and asked how many people got 9 'A's and then 8 'A's and then 7 'A's and so on. This was a pretty crushing experience because it forced the children to publicly declare how they had been judged and Mirinda had come home in tears because of it (I don't suppose any of them thought they could refuse to answer). She is in a new Tutor group this term and the new Tutor at least did not repeat this exercise. This time again however she arrived home and hid in her room in tears. After I had spent quite a while just hugging her and reassuring her we spent quite some time reading through and discussing the report, looking at the grades and the teachers comments and deciding whether they represented how she felt she had done in each class. She had shared her grades with a few people, but then her friend told some others about her grades which had particularly upset her. And this was not even the grade that says how 'clever' you are, just how you behaved in class. The accompanying letter gives a list of what level the 'average' student would be expected to be at in each subject. Mirinda is quite bright, above the average grade in most of the subjects, and it was still an undermining process. She had initially just flicked through the report to look at each number and she focussed of course on the grades that were lower and judged herself by those ones. Just how undermining this experience must be for a child whose grades are all lower than they 'should be' I cannot begin to imagine. Schools are unable to see that what they do is invest the idea of 'academic success' with such weight and then label a child as a failure by this process of comparison. Not only that but children come to label themselves as failures. The way a school report attacks self esteem is quite brutal, it classifies and measures a child and reduces them to a series of numbers. They justify this process on the idea that a child can watch their own progress as their grades improve, and the teacher can offer encouraging suggestions to try and get them to move from a 4.5 to a 4.8. But is it just an exercise in comparing human beings, against eachother and against some completely arbitrary system that bears no relation to the real nature of learning. School places itself in a position of authority over its pupils, and creates a situation of conditional self-esteem, where children become dependent on the school telling them that their achievements are worthwhile and to be valued. There is no space on the report for the child to say how they think they have done, or to comment on how their teachers have behaved towards them. Despite all that schools say there is no sense of it being a collaborative process, both the teaching and the judging is a passive process that is done to children.